Selecting the Right Process in Mediation
Published by Chris Whitelaw on August 11, 2010 in Mediation Practice, Mediation Skills | No CommentsThere are three core components in the dispute management process -
- The content and content interests of the dispute
- The relationships and relationship interests involved in the dispute
- The choices of process to manage the dispute and the process interests of the parties
I totally agree with this statement in the IAMA Mediator’s handbook - “For durable and effective resolution of a dispute, the parties’ process interests, relationship interests and content interests all need to be addressed.”
Mediators need to encourage the parties to communicate all their interests, and then assist them to find solutions that satisfy enough of those interests that they can each say “I can live with that solution”. This is what opens up pathways to dispute resolution.
It usually turns out that HOW people negotiate to resolve their dispute and WHO is involved in the negotiation end up being more important in achieving DISPUTE RESOLUTION than WHAT is in the dispute.
A skilled mediator will be better able than a less skilled one to identify each parties critical interests that must be satisfied to make a settlement possible on the day of mediation.
In a recent commercial dispute that I mediated the content of the dispute included claims of money owed for services provided, moneys lent and not repaid and items of property retained by one party and what each item’s market value was. The mediation process was getting bogged down by attempts to achieve a win/win by dividing up the property items when their was a major dispute over the valuations. When I was able to bring out that one party had more interest in receiving the cash and the other more interested in keeping the pieces of property (antiques, paintings etc) a solution soon emerged with terms that gave more of the disputed cash to one and more of the property items to the other irrespective of their true market valuations. The party who had the interest in the cash clearly needed to achieve a certain minimum payment in cash in the settlement for him to say “YES” to any deal.
The other factor that really helped resolve this dispute was the time and effort applied in PRE-MEDIATION process to explore the history of the RELATIONSHIP and identify KEY INTERESTS of each party that arose from that relationship. This process helped widen the possible options to resolve the dispute and save the relationship at the same time.
Lawyers who are not trained in Alternative Dispute Resolution Skills will tend to focus mainly on the CONTENT of a dispute and the TERMS AND CONDITIONS for Settlement. This often leads to the parties becoming fixed and polarized in their positions and this reduces the chance of a good outcome. Mediators can often best assist the parties by using a co-operative approach that looks for creative solutions to fulfill the real needs and interests of the parties. A lot of the mediator’s skill is applied to uncovering those real needs and interests.
Christopher Whitelaw
Mediator